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Sexually Tempted...!!

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That caught your attention, right?!!

Well, I just found this course workbook Personal Holiness in times of Temptation (from Manhood series) by Dr. Bruce Wilkinson.

Its a bit like the PDL book (with 30days to cover), but its more specific, talking about temptations faced by men. Although it is addressed TO men, but the issues faced are pretty relevant to women as well.

Among which is SEX.

Here is a beautiful verse from Proverbs 5:15, 18-19.

Drink from your own cistern, and running water from your own well. Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice with the wife of your youth. As a loving deer and a graceful doe, Let her breasts satisfy you at all times, And always be intoxicated with her love.

Among which, it discusses the responsibility of the man and woman in the book of 1 Corinthians, that both husband and wife has the responsiblity of being the sexual "food" for each other. Depriving each other of that "food" is technically being selfish, and many a time, women (or men) feign headache/stomachache/ period to avoid having sex with the spouse, leading the spouse to go out to other places to have his "need" met.

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Dr. Wilkinson's analogy is that if a wo/man's always had his "food" met, s/he would be less tempted to go outside (on the wild, that is) to steal food "from other sources", especially if they were "hungry sexually".

(of course, if the wife is pregnant with the baby inside, it would be unreasonable for any kind of sex at that point of time anyway..!)

1 Corinthians 7:3-4 states,
Let the husband fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to the husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does, and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.

He states that a lot of men are embarrassed to approach their spouses for sex, and in this aspect.? Is this true? (Well, I wouldn't know, since I am not anywhere near there..).

In my opinion, whatever the wife does with the husband (sexually anyway), is their business. If they want to try out any kind of variation, (oral, anal, BDSM, whatever), or some new thang, that is up to them as well. ;-)

Hei man, I have a perverted streak as well!!!

2 comments

Nicholas said...

Last person i want to take advice on life from, is a guy who gives talks for a living... And are theologens even entitled to the Dr Title like proper Ph.Ds?

the pig said...

on men going outside to steal food, can't blame entirely on the wife who says 'No' ...
some men are just bored with his usual dish for all those years, they need a new taste.......

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